Do You Prefer Your Woman to Have a Firm Hard Ass or a Soft Jiggly Ass?

To me, having a tight ass seems manly. I know that it's probably a preferred attribute when you're a health conscious freak and work out at the gym 24/7, but I like something I can squeeze. Can you squeeze a rock? No!!  As long as it's not flat and has some shape, I think that should be all that matters, am I right or am I right?

I'm only asking this because I am curious as to what most men find attractive. There's always commercials of girls in bikinis with rock hard abs and butts and to me it's unappealing. I want a bouncy ass that moves when I slap it!

The other day in bed, I was laying in my stomach and doing the ass clap, and of course my husband always stares with amazement. Can your rock hard ass do that? I think not!

So now that you know what I prefer, what do you men prefer when it comes to a woman's ass?

Key by Jopen: Comet G-Spot Wand Review

Since Jopen is quite an expensive sex toy brand, they decided to make the Key line for those that cannot afford their high end toys. Somewhat similar to what Lelo did in making their picobong line. But, don't mistake it's relatively cheap price for cheap materials. They're still made with the same 100% body safe silicone and ingredients.

As you can see from the photo, The Comet G-Spot Wand has a bulbous head and curves extensively so that it has the ability to reach your g-spot without you straining your arm to get it at the right angle. Simply move it in and out and you'll be entering euphoric bliss in no time!

The great thing about this toy is that you can use either end for pleasure. The whole thing is glass, but the other side has a silicone sleeve which doesn't move. Great for those who have never experienced a toy made out of glass. You can run it under hot or cold water and have some fun with those different temperaments. A fully made glass toy you can stick in the freezer but I don't really recommend that with this toy when it is covered with a silicone sleeve.

Once my boyfriend seen that I had this toy, he wanted me to use it as a deep tissue massager on his upper back since he has a ligament that has been giving his range of motion some trouble. He's been going to physical therapy to get it repaired but nothing beats a deep tissue massage. Simply put massage oil on your  or your significant others body and glide the glass side over the troubled area. You/they will be thankful afterwards.

As always, clean your toys with soap and hot water or you can stick it in the dishwasher on the top rack and take care of it that way. Just hope you don't have roommates. I can see them shriek in horror now as they find a dildo instead of a glass.

Thank you tabutoys for providing this toy for free in exchange for my honest review.

Experience All 50 Shades of Sexy This Valentines!

If you haven't heard of or even read the panty-moistening 50 shades of grey, you just may want to jump on this deal from EdenFantasys for Valentines to bring a little spark or excitement to your bedroom. They're offering 20% off kits that are inspired by the book or you can snag them separately and get 25% off with the code HOT4YOU, which doesn't expire until Feb 15th at 3 p.m. EST and you will receive FREE Shipping with a $35+ order.

The book basically gives you a little insight into the BDSM world in an erotic manner. There's no freaky, deaky shit that would give you nightmares, hence why it's so popular among the 40-year-old crowd. If you've already consider yourself a pro with BDSM play, then this book may not be for you, or it may piss you off enough to make you hate it for the way they perceive submissive sex.


My favorite on this list is the Romantic Restraint Kit. You can read the review that a previous contributor did on that specific product. And my other favorite toy, even though it's technically not a toy, is the luna pleasure beads. I think they would be perfect for someone who just had a kid, or for someone who may have bladder leakage as it will help tighten your pubococcygeus muscle (PC muscles) and make them a lot stronger and prevent the problems above.

Even though I suggested those, it doesn't mean it's going to be something that will catch your attention. Try something new, you never know, you may just like it!

Until next time wet spotters.

Jopen Vanity Vr12 Luxury Rabbit Vibrator Review

Since Jopen Vanity is one of those sex toys brands that isn't for those with a tight budget, I jumped on the chance to review the Jopen Vanity Vr12 from Adult Sensations when they contacted me last month.

Jopen Vanity Vr12 is one of those luxury rabbits that should be in every woman's sex toy collection. You don't need any other rabbit other than this one. It's powerful, stimulating in every sense of the word, which provides intense orgasms either from your clit, your g-spot, and sometimes both! If you haven't found your g-spot yet, you may just hit it with this toy as it can bend to stimulate areas that have never been stimulated before.

It is made up of silicone, which is 100% body safe and has a velvetty texture to it like most luxury toys. It's soft and glides smoothly when inserted. The Vr12 is about 9 1/2" long from tip to base. Insertable length is around 5 3/4", and the clitoral slug-like stimulator is about 2 3/4" long and flexible. Feels amazing when it's flicking back and forth on your clit like a mini-whip.

The set includes the Vr12 of course, charging dock, adapter, and a storage bag. And if you want to change it up a bit, you can use it in the shower as its fully waterproof.  The base and charging cradle are made of a matching magenta ABS plastic. The buttons are silicone, and they are surrounded by a shiny silver plated band and LED light rows. The toy arrives locked. Press both buttons together and it becomes unlocked and ready for use. To re-lock it, press both buttons again. Button 1 then controls the vibration strength. Once all the lights are lit up, that means it's at the highest setting. Button 2 controls the shaft rotation. Once again, when all 7 lights are lit up, it's at the highest spin rotation. Don't be surprised if your vagina feels like it's getting punched by Mike Tyson. You will be slightly sore afterwards!

There are 3 texturized ridges on the shaft, which I was hesitant about since I don't like bumps, ridges, or any of that because it's just not pleasurable to me, but surprisingly enough these didn't bother me, even though they're directly aimed to please the opening of the vagina and surrounding areas.

I found the toy to be a little bit loud, so if you have room mates and you don't have anything on to hide the sound, they could possibly hear the V-r-R-R-r-O- OhHh o-O-O-o-M vibrations by crossing in front of your door, especially if your walls are thin!

I will probably get rid of my other rabbit and just keep this one and only this one as there is no need for more than one by my standards. This is an amazing toy that's worth it if you can look past the price tag.

As always, cleaning your sex toys with warm soapy water should always be done before and after use. And only use water based lubricants with silicone sex toys.

Until next time wet spotters.

Lelo Alia Clit Vibrator Review

Obviously clit stimulation is an important part of pleasure for women since most cannot get off vaginally, so of course I had to try out the lovely Lelo Alia from TabuToys, which to me is just a similar but smaller version of Lelo Isla.



Lelo Alia is a clitoral delight that features a sleek, chrome loop in which you can easily glide your fingers through for easy grasping. She also has a silky smooth shell that feels great over your most sensitive areas. And don't let the small exterior fool you, she packs a powerful punch! Now don't get me wrong, she's not as powerful as a Hitachi, but she surely gets the job done for those that don't need a jackhammer to get them off clitorally.

Lelo Alia is small,discreet, luxurious, and waterproof; perfect for traveling or for using in the bathtub.

I have also found Alia to provide pin point pleasure on sore muscle-y aches in the neck and lower back. Great for post day work outs when you're sore and can't move. So she is not only very versatile, but also immensely satisfying no matter where she's used. She also boasts a signature 3-button interface that controls vibration intensity through 6 variable modes using the + and - controls that all of Lelo's toys feature.

As always, Lelo's Insignia line are fully-rechargeable and offer no less than 4 hours of pleasure. They arrive in Lelo's award-winning packaging complete with charger, satin storage pouch, and a full 1-year warranty.

How to Be More Comfortable on Top of Your Partner

I understand it ladies, I too feel self conscious when I'm on top, but we all have to remember that our partners love the way we look, otherwise they wouldn't request that we ride them, or even get a boner for that matter if they didn't enjoy it.

Either way, we're here to learn how to be a little more comfortable. It's mind over matter. You've got to love yourself the way you are and if you can't, then you should probably do something about it.

Some things you can do to feel a little more comfortable while on top:

1. Freshen up and put on a little makeup, don't over do it to where you look like a $5 Vegas whore, unless you feel comfortable with that look. Just something low maintenance that looks a bit more natural. Style your hair with a bit of hair spray and a slight tease. After all it's going to look like that when you're finished anyways, might as well get the sex hair started early since it's hot as hell.
2. Don't like the lights on? turn them off and light up some candles. It will make the lighting dim and make us not only feel sexier but hide some of the flaws that we want hidden. 
3. Perhaps your body image isn't exactly ideal? Don't let the media fool you into thinking you're not beautiful enough. The people everyone idealizes are for the most part, surgically enhanced. No one is ever perfect, not even ridiculously famous people! 
4. If you're still worried about your body, perhaps you should go for a non see-through piece of sexy lingerie with under wire. That way your boobs are looking perky, and you're covered for the most. I would probably rock a corset myself, but that's just me. You can even plop your boobs over the top while making love if your man needs to caress, lick and suck upon them. 
5. Get a pair of crotch-less panties to match and you won't even have to remove an article of clothing, unless you really wanted to!

Have anymore helpful tips to make us women feel comfortable in the cowgirl position?